Kamasutra advent calendar for adults: Try new sexual positions: 25 Naughty days for new sensations in bed

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Yep, turns out a beach ball can turn into the bouncy sex prop you never knew you needed. It provides lots of soft support to the receiving partner, who leans their body over the ball while the penetrating partner enters from behind. Bonus: suspending yourself above the ground reduces the risk of sand getting into uncomfortable places. So whether it's a one-off or your usual style, if you want to dominate or get the upper hand over your partner, try out these new positions where you will set the pace and take your partner on the path to pleasure! This is the one time when fumbling in the end zone is actually a good thing. This position is all hands in the best way — between the legs, sliding down the belly, all over the chest, etc. Pull your partner close and enjoy. The blindfolds that both partners (!) use in this move will remove every last inhibition. The receiving partner is on top this time, with their heels planted on the bed for leverage and the perfect angle. Just make sure you get into position beforeslipping on the blindfolds.

You may know this position by its other less SFW name —“face sitting”— but Queening in Bondage is when a partner recieves oral stimulation while resting on or above their partner’s mouth. Adding restraint play to this is yet another way to up the sensation and intensity of the scene or sexual encounter, allowing the receiving partner to really own the power of the pose (as pictured here) or offering an equally sexy subversion if you switch places. When it comes to sex, some of us love to dominate and others appreciate being dominated - while some like to switch and others prefer to keep things equal. Whatever the case, the most important thing is to find the right balance so that both of you can express their preferences. Getting the receiving partner on top is a great way to give them a boost of control (and to give the penetrating partner a hell of a view). In the Seated Scissors position, the partner recieving can straddle the penetrating partner with one leg between theirs and one outside their hip, allowing some extra angles and creative ranges of motion while also giving some additional grinding options for clitoral stimulation. To begin, he sits on the bed, with his legs outstretched. Then she climbs on top of him, and wraps her legs around him while he pulls her closer. Then she moves up and down and takes total control. This is a great position for deep penetration and intimacy. She sits on the stairs with him facing her a few steps further down so he is at perfect level to enter her. She lifts one leg up and rests it against his body leaving both him and her with something to push against (her the stairs and him her leg) for greater thrusting and penetration.

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Yab-Yum With a Twist takes a traditional Tantric sex and makes it perfect for the front seat of the car. Instead of having the penetrating partner cross their legs, they’ll sit upright with the receiving partner on their lap. The special part of this position is how close you’ll feel to your partner. Sitting face-to-face and breathing each other’s breath promotes serious romance, no matter where you’re at. For that sweeping-off-the-countertop (or desk) hot sex moment that you’ve totally fantasized about, the Countertop sex position can utilize just about any flat surface that is the right height for the penetrating partner. Take turns controlling the depth of penetration (the receiving partner can adjust their legs at their partners shoulders as well) and you’ll both be seeing stars. This position is basically beach sex 101: Just pull your swimsuit to the side and get busy. For this on-your-feet move, find a secluded, wind-protected area, lean up against a sturdy support, and enjoy some intimate time in the sun. If a day is missed, an extra day will be added to the challenge increasing the challenge length from 30, 31, 32, and so on. The challenge will not exceed 40 days.

Whether you’re flying solo or are showing your partner some of what you like, a solid go-to masturbation position (like grinding on a firm pillow or a toy) can be an excellent way to heighten pleasure. Straddling said pillow (or your lover’s thigh, go off) makes this position is great for people with vulvas to get the friction they really want. This steamy moveoffers extra intimacy during the act and can be adapted for anal sex. You and your partner can experiment with plenty of touching and kissing as you set the rhythm together. Any pregnant woman will appreciate the Rear-Entry Side Position, a nice relaxing way to have a roll in the hay. It’s also just one of the snuggliest positions around for all kinds of bodies — and excellent for morning sex. Have the penetrating partner enter from behind and snuggle up close with your knees touching, with your hands free to hold one another or play with other erogenous areas along the way. The dares could include trying out a new position or doing it somewhere or doing something out of the box. The idea is to make sex an important part of your relationship and bring out the importance of its essence and reconnect you and your partners sensual side. The challenge does have some rules though, for starters:Lotus is anothergreat opportunity for clitoral stimulation,” says Alden. “This position can be difficult to get into a groove with and find balance, but definitelyworth a try due to the closeness and heat that comes with it.” Entering into the kinky portion of our list, Hands Behind Ankles is a position that requires a comfortable pair of cuffs, a good deal of flexibility, and some pre-game discussion. Make sure the partner being cuffed is comfortable, sort out safe words (a red, yellow, green stoplight system is cool but stopping when you hear “stop” is always a good place to start, NGL) and plan out some cozy aftercare.

You may want to talk about scheduling right after you’ve just had sex. That’s a perfect time to plan, since you’re riding the high of your most recent rendezvous. Agree to a Bare Minimum

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One position is ideal if you have a bench or a wider rim of your tub — have the penatrating partner keep both legs on the ground (they do need to keep their balance game together here!) while the partner being penetrated takes them from the front, lifting one leg up to wrap around their partner or to rest on the side of the tub. Just add water. Each partner gets two VETO days in which they can choose to just have sex and bypass a specific day’s activity. Endlessly spontaneous sex is the dream for most couples, but the reality is that it isn’t typically sustainable in the long term. When you’re dating someone brand new, you’re willing to make incredible sacrifices in your life to make space for that person. As time goes on, life catches up. Most of us are so busy we don’t have time to spontaneously read a book, much less spontaneously have sex. For many couples, scheduling sex is the only way to ensure that they actually have sex. Yes, it’s sad to recognize how complicated it can be to make the space for sex. It’s OK to mourn your old sex life, but don’t let that prevent you from creating a new sex life. To do dancer, stand up facing one another. Have your partner grab one of your legs and wrap it around their torso. “This position is great for intimacy and closeness,” says couples therapist Adrienne Alden. “It allows for the shaft of the penis to rub up against the clitoris.” (Sex ed 101 — that’s a good thing.) The clit is a super sensitive part of the body with more than 8,000 nerve endings in the tip alone, so giving it some gentle — and ideally, lubricated! — swirls, circles, and strokes is the easiest way to up your game as a lover. Just ask your partner what they like best!